Hey there! I'm Ben. I had the pleasure of being a part of a wedding at Tom Hams Lighthouse a few times now and I want to share some insight on how a wedding goes. As well as what you need to know when having your wedding at Tom Hams Lighthouse. Tom Hams Lighthouse in San Diego, California is a breathtaking venue, with a city style atmosphere that truly makes every wedding unique and memorable.

Now, let's talk about the view. The San Diego skyline view from Tom Hams Lighthouse is simply amazing, a sight that is sure to leave your guests, and your photographs with a lasting impression. Imagine saying your vows with the cityscape serving as your backdrop, its lights twinkling as the sun slowly sets. It's a scene straight out of a romantic movie, and it's all made possible at this wonderful venue. The view isn't the only thing that makes this place special though. The staff at Tom Hams Lighthouse are professional and attentive, ensuring that every detail is taken care of. The food, catered by the venue itself, is exquisite, adding that extra touch of elegance to the wedding celebration. The reception and cocktail hour are equally as great, on the restaurant deck with panoramic views of the City to the east, Coronado to the south, and Point Loma to the west! Not only is it stunning, but it's also convient for your out of town guests being close to the airport with plenty of hotels near by.

Now lets talk pricing, with views this great hosting a wedding must cost a premium right? Nope, couples spend on average $12,000-$20,000 on Tom Hams Lighthouse weddings. With a ceremony/reception price of $1,000 and per person packages of $80-125 per person leaving you at about ~$8,000 for 50 guests after taxes and fees with the minimum package. Keep in mind that they do have minimum spends that range between 3,000-18,000 depending on the date and time of year. This offers budget friendly options for couples who don't mind an off season wedding. All packages include 6 hours of event time, choice of buffet or plated dinner, tables/chairs/linens and a wedding cake. Being a restaurant they do not have getting ready suites, but like I already mentioned there are plenty of hotels less than a mile away to choose from.

Photo oppurtunities are also great at Tom Hams Lighthouse, I have mentioned the skyline multiple times and that is the most obvious and also easiest. Theres also a view off the deck to the back towards Shelter Island and the harbor. You also can of course go out front of the lighthouse or take a walk on the Harbor Island path. For some greenery you can use the ceremony site with the hedges. Overall Tom Hams Lighthouse is a dream and really has all you could ask for when it comes to a wedding venue. From multiple views, great food and staff, and convenient location and orientation of the day you cant really expect much more.